Your venue is such an important part of your wedding day. And it does more than provide a place for your guests and a pretty background for wedding photos. Every couple has their own set of “must haves” when it comes to choosing the perfect venue. Here are 9 reasons why couples fall in love with Oakhaven, a casual, yet refined, farm wedding experience.

 

A wedding couple outside at Oakhaven, a Pelham NC country estate wedding venue.

Why couples fall in love with Oakhaven

For every couple, there is a special reason for choosing Oakhaven for their Piedmont wedding. Maybe it’s the thought of having exclusive use of a countryside estate for a wedding weekend. Or maybe it’s the private, yet convenient location for a mid-week elopement. Couples who place a premium on all-inclusive wedding planning appreciate the one-stop approach and professional expertise. And everyone, couples and guests alike, love the scenic beauty.

#1 An estate that’s completely yours for the weekend

From Thursday evening to your Sunday departure brunch, this estate in the rolling Piedmont is yours exclusively for your wedding weekend. You’ll find plenty of privacy and peaceful surroundings on this 1400-acre property. Every area on the property offers an opportunity to create once-in-a-lifetime memories, from games on the lawn and s’mores by the firepit to a country elegant breakfast in the sunlit English Manor dining room.

#2 Comfortable accommodations in four unique homes

Keep your wedding party and loved ones with you all through your wedding weekend with Oakhaven’s on-site accommodations. Each home is beautifully decorated and offers charm and character. And there’s even a spacious, air-conditioned kennel for your four-legged ring bearer!

Your honeymoon home – The Cottage: End your wedding day at this cozy, secluded cottage with its 1 bedroom and 1.5 baths. Enjoy the nighttime view from the deck and make newlywed wishes on the stars.

Easy going refinement – The English Manor: This Tudor-inspired home from the 1930s accommodates up to 13 guests with 6 bedrooms and 4.5 baths. Rental includes use of the custom outdoor fire pit and kitchen.

Travel through time –Woodrow’s Cabin: This turn of the century two-story log cabin is a favorite for the groom and his posse. With 2 bedrooms, a loft, and 2 baths, this eclectic home sleeps up to 7 guests.

Great for families – The Bungalow: This brick cottage with its 3 bedrooms and 2 baths sleeps up to 6 guests. This home is ideal for a family or small group of friends.

Getting ready for a wedding a NC venue Oakhaven.

#3 Comfortable, accommodating pre-ceremony spaces

Relax, it’s your wedding day. Brides, mothers, grandmothers, and the wedding party appreciate the spaciousness of the English Manor for getting ready. And the home offers plenty of natural light – your makeup artist will love you for it. Meanwhile, the groom and the gang are hanging out next door in their own well-appointed space. The gravel driveway of the manor is often the setting for fun-filled morning wedding party photos and touching family moments.

#4 Every outdoor ceremony location is simply stunning

Couples can pick from three beautiful outdoor ceremony locations. And each one offers something special, from foliage and flowers to mesmerizing sunsets.

The Signature Oak: For over a century, our Signature Oak has graced the rolling farmland of Oakhaven. Countless couples have made their vows under this majestic tree. The repurposed church pews give this ceremony site an outdoor cathedral feeling.

The Grand Dutch Barn Terrace: Adjoining the interior reception space, the paved terrace sets up beautifully with white folding chairs with an aisle that leads to the wrought iron gazebo. Guests will truly appreciate the tranquil beauty of sunset over the gentle hillsides.

The Manor House Gazebo: Wind your way through the blooms with blossoming trees in the background. This elegant path around The Manor House and to the Gazebo is ever-changing from spring through autumn. White chairs on the lush green lawn provide a classic outdoor wedding ceremony experience.

Wedding party outdoors at Oakhaven in Pelham, NC.

More reasons why couples fall in love with Oakhaven

Let’s keep the vision going with more great reasons to look at this top-rated North Carolina wedding property.

#5 A barn venue that takes your breath away

From the breathtaking views from the expansive windows to the soaring stone fireplace, Oakhaven’s Grand Dutch Reception Barn provides plenty of space and flow. The rich wood gives the feel of country elegance, while the draped ceiling twinkles, making you feel like you’re under a night sky.

Here are a just a few of the features included in your venue rental:

  • Accommodates up to 250
  • 2-hour use for ceremony rehearsal
  • Friday access for setting up personal decor
  • Private dressing areas
  • Choice of ceremony location
  • Grand Dutch Barn and terrace for cocktails and reception
  • Chairs, round and farm tables, floor length linens (your color choice)
  • Cake table & linen (your color choice)
  • 5-star service from experienced staff for setup and breakdown
  • Parking attendant and limo golf cart shuttle service
  • Engagement/bridal photo shoot

 

A rustic banquet hall with wooden walls and ceiling, decorated with white drapes. Round tables are set with white tablecloths and wooden chairs. Green floral arrangements are visible.

#6 All-inclusive planning convenience with trusted partners

From catering and bar service to photography, cake, and florals, Oakhaven offers all-inclusive packages through trusted wedding vendors. Whether it’s a Saturday night reception or an entire weekend, you’ll find wedding planning stress-free.

Oakhaven’s on-site wedding planner Jeanette Wagoner will walk you through each aspect of your wedding, carefully putting together your timeline and helping coordinate your package vendors. Then, Jeanette will put her expertise and joy for weddings to work for you on the big day.

#7 One-stop shopping for all your decor needs

Decor definitely elevates a wedding. But rentals can be pricey and time consuming. Couples will find everything they need to complete their country elegant weddings in Oakhaven’s Decor Closet.

For one flat price, couples are free to “raid” the closet. Take your pick of signage, lanterns, candle holders, flameless candles, garlands, mirrors, and so much more! Make a signature statement with Oakhaven’s Decor Closet.

#8 So secluded, yet so convenient for your guests

While seclusion is a top reason couples choose Oakhaven, your guests won’t get lost. The venue is minutes from Interstate 29, just north of Greensboro and very close to Danville, VA.

For guests not staying at the property, you’ll find a variety of accommodations in nearby Danville. And out of town guests can conveniently fly into Piedmont Triad International Airport in Greensboro. Each city offers dining, entertainment, and novel attractions.

#9 Incredible wedding day photos and lasting memories

During your guests’ cocktail hour, take a ride with your photographer in our Model T golf cart and capture the golden hour and gorgeous scenery. And with its seasonal gardens, the English Manor provides a lovely backdrop for more formal photos.  Take a look at our Gallery and be inspired.

And while you’re taking beautiful photos, you’re also making memories. If you’re spending the weekend, Oakhaven offers an outdoor kitchen with an adjacent firepit for a casual rehearsal dinner. Or use it for an after party. And our tent, with its cooling liner, is ideal for an alfresco Sunday departure brunch. Set it up on the lawn next to the fire pit. And most of all, take time to soak in Mother Nature and her wedding gift to you.

A bride and groom with wedding venue Oakhaven's signature Model T golf cart in front of the entrance to the white barn venue.

Ready to fall in love with your NC wedding venue?

These are just a few reasons why couples fall in love with Oakhaven. No matter the season, our seclusion, scenery and laid-back luxury make for an incredible and heartfelt wedding experience. 

As one of state’s most popular wedding venues, prime dates and weekends book quickly. But our countryside charm is also available for mid-week elopements and micro weddings and includes an overnight stay in the Honeymoon Cottage.

Come see why Oakhaven makes wedding dreams come true. Schedule a virtual or in-person tour today.

About the Author: Patience Ergish

Patience Ergish
Patience Dibrell Ergish is the CEO & Owner of Oakhaven Properties. Patience oversees a premier country estate wedding venue located on a farm that’s been in her family for nearly 100 years. She holds a degree in horticultural science from North Carolina State University and you’ll see her handiwork all over Oakhaven. When she’s not busy sprucing up the grounds or decorating the property’s guest homes, you’ll find her spending time with her dog, digging in her own backyard, and practicing yoga.