Wedding season is in full swing at Oakhaven and that means wedding weekends. From welcome cocktail party to departure brunch, Oakhaven is the perfect place to gather family and friends. Put together your wedding weekend guest guide with some of these ideas and recommendations. Between on-site activities and nearby attractions, your guests will find plenty to do.

Oakhaven is made for wedding weekend guest activities

From the time you and your wedding guests enter through the gates of Oakhaven, you’ll experience tranquility, seasonal beauty, and fresh air. You’ll have your pick of accommodations for you, your wedding party, and special guests along with custom amenities and activities. Here are a few wonderful ways to make use of this countryside elegant NC wedding weekend venue.

Experience Oakhaven’s very special accommodations

Oakhaven’s stunningly decorated and fully appointed homes accommodate up to 26 guests – not including an adorable honeymoon cottage. Homes are available for a 3-night stay. Start your wedding weekend on Thursday evening and carry on until your departure brunch on Sunday.

The Tudor-inspired English Manor dates to the 1930s. It’s the largest home, accommodating up to 13. Rental includes the custom outdoor kitchen and fire pit. You are going to want this!

Families or a group of friends will like The Bungalow, a modern cottage that sleeps up to 6. And the two-story log Woodrow’s Cabin makes a fun groom’s quarters with room for up to 7.

You’ll find each home reflects its own special character through the interior decor curated by Oakhaven’s Owner Patience Dibrell Ergish.

Oakhaven’s wedding weekend guest guide

Start the celebration on Thursday evening with your family and friends. Make it an evening by the fire pit and enjoy a S’mores setup. And take advantage of the pizza oven in the outdoor kitchen. This time is made for star gazing and story swapping.

Friday may include setting up some personal decor in the Grand Dutch Ballroom. But there’s still time to get in some relaxation. Oakhaven’s spacious lawns are ideal for cornhole, badminton, or croquet

Oakhaven’s staff can put together a picnic lunch and take you and your besties in the custom golf cart to the property’s serene pond. There’s even fishing off the dock – gear provided! Your guests can also experience a 3D archery challenge at nearby Costner Reserve.

After your ceremony rehearsal, enjoy a North Carolina farm-to-table dinner and watch the sun set under Oakhaven’s modern, stylish tent. Then spend some time with loved ones toasting by the fire.

More ideas for your Oakhaven wedding weekend

Saturday is the big day! Wake up relaxed and refreshed in the English Manor, knowing you can take your time getting ready. Cherish every moment of your wedding day at Oakhaven. Exchange your vows under the Signature Oak, at the English Manor Pavilion, or on the Grand Dutch Barn terrace. Our rustic elegant venue has an open floor plan and plenty of flexibility for dancing and entertainment. Then end the night back at the firepit with an after-party.

Sunday is time to say farewell to family and friends. Enjoy brunch al fresco under the tent or set up something a little more formal in the dining room of the English Manor. Your Oakhaven wedding weekend is completely customized to your desires. 

Nearby accommodations and great things to do

For out-of-town wedding guests not staying at Oakhaven, the nearest cities are Danville, VA (15-20 minutes) and Greensboro, NC (about 40 minutes). Piedmont Triad International Airport outside Greensboro is the best bet for guests flying in for the wedding. Each city has its own personality, dining experiences, and attractions. Here are some area gems for your wedding weekend guest guide.

River City welcomes your wedding guests

Danville, VA is a hidden gem. Historic homes grace Main Street and downtown now has new life in its old tobacco warehouses. 

Visitors can experience Caesar’s Virginia with a full casino, deluxe hotel, an array of dining options, and signature amenities. The property is also becoming a magnet for national music and comedy acts.

Located in the Sutherlin Mansion, the Danville Museum of Fine Arts and History tells the story of those who lived there and the town’s history, pre-Civil War to civil rights. It also features renowned regional art exhibits.

The downtown Farmers Market offers fresh goodness, local food artisans, and creative crafters. The next-door Danville Science Center is a terrific stop for families, and there’s free butterfly garden adjacent to the center. Nearby, the Riverwalk Trail is popular for a stroll or bike ride.

Dan Daniels Park offers miles of wooded bike trails. During the summer, the Dan River is a popular spot for anglers, canoers, and kayakers. River City also has minor league baseball, a hometown symphony, and a talented local theater. Your guests will also find golf simulators, duck pin bowling, and pool at River District Social.

Danville, VA dining and accommodations

Links is a warm, welcoming coffee shop in the Warehouse District that’s good for breakfast or a quick lunch.  Me’s burgers & brews has outside dining, while King Cropp Kitchen serves up southern comfort food with a twist. Crema & Vine is a popular spot for a glass of wine and live music. Or try Two Witches Brewing Company with its dog-friendly outdoor area and open mic nights.  If your guests want fine dining, suggest Golden Leaf Bistro or the Schoolfield Restaurant

Out of towners can stay at the casino’s hotel or enjoy a boutique property like The Bee, The Holbrook or The Laurel. Take a spin around town on one of the hotel’s bikes. The Bee also hosts rooftop events, like a musical happy hour. And new properties from major brands are being constructed.

For wedding guests staying in Greensboro

With an up-and-coming food scene, a popular brewery, miles of walking trails, cultural performances and museums, your guests will be entertained in the Triad.

James Beard Award finalist Machete leads the culinary way in Greensboro fine dining options. Your guests can also enjoy a different take on South Cajun/Creole at downtown’s Blue Denim and experience fusion cuisine at Pangaea Bistro & Bar. They can also savor upscale seafood at 1618 West or take a taste of classic Southern fare at Lucky 32.

Need more dining options? Your guests can’t go wrong at locally-owned B. Christopher’s Steakhouse. And who doesn’t love brunch? Try Undercurrent Restaurant.  And guests can always enjoy a craft beverage at Greensboro’s OG Natty Green’s Brewing Company.

Your out-of-town wedding guests may enjoy touring GreenHill Center for NC Art as well as Weatherspoon Art Museum. They can also explore the Smithsonian Affiliate Greensboro History Museum and the acclaimed International Civil Rights Center & Museum. If the timing’s right, guests can take in a performance at the Steven Tanger Center or the annual NC Folk Festival.

Plan your wedding weekend at Oakhaven

With a convenient, private location, nearby major airport, and an array of things to do both on Oakhaven’s grounds and nearby, this estate is made for NC wedding weekends.  Schedule your tour and consultation and discover the magic of Oakhaven.

About the Author: Patience Ergish

Patience Ergish
Patience Dibrell Ergish is the CEO & Owner of Oakhaven Properties. Patience oversees a premier country estate wedding venue located on a farm that’s been in her family for nearly 100 years. She holds a degree in horticultural science from North Carolina State University and you’ll see her handiwork all over Oakhaven. When she’s not busy sprucing up the grounds or decorating the property’s guest homes, you’ll find her spending time with her dog, digging in her own backyard, and practicing yoga.